Overwhelmed? 5 Ways to Find Peace in Less Than 5 Minutes...
I’m not sure if you are like me, however, I can’t keep track of
how many times a day I have so many thoughts popping into my head of things to
do, people to call, groceries to buy, e-mails to send, clothes to wash, dishes
to clean...you get the point! All of
these daily thoughts that come in and out of our brains on a daily basis can
send us into overdrive and make us feel
overwhelmed and often anxious about our lives.
I am a follower of Oprah and faithfully read her magazine. Often times I come across articles that help
me find easy ways to relieve these feelings and many other stresses that I come
in contact with in daily life.
October 2013 issue of O Magazine had an especially interesting
article that helped me put all of these overwhelming factors into perspective,
and 5 easy ways to find peace in less than 5 minutes! I wanted to share these interesting tactics
with you:
1. During Rush Hour: Pop a peppermint - What helps a frustrated, worn-out
driver (besides vanishing traffic?)
Researchers at Wheeling Jesuit University in West Virginia found that
pumping peppermint-scented air into the cars of ticked-off commuters helped
decrease their anxiety and fatigue.
Stash a bag of peppermint candies in your glove compartment to help you
keep your cool in honking traffic or during a hectic commute.
I have found this useful in more ways than just in the car. Being a dentist, I often times will have more
than 1 place I need to be at a time. Nothing
makes me more anxious than knowing people are waiting on me. Therefore, I keep a stash of peppermints at
my office to help! Try it in one of your
stressful and anxious daily moments! It works!
2. While Trying to Get Dinner on the Table: Stop Listening to the
6 p.m News...at 6 p.m.
I can’t count the number of
times I have been trying to get dinner ready for my daughters at a reasonable
time and been caught listening to the evening news. Trying to do both at the same times often
ends up with me getting frustrated with dinner or worse my lovely daughters,
when my focus should be 100% on them. I
have set my recorder to capture the news each day and if time permits I will
catch up on it once the girls have gone to bed.
I find that I don’t watch as often and know just enough to keep me from
getting too anxious regarding all the worlds unsettling situations.
3. As You Stare Down 3,572* Unread Emails: Remember to
Breathe
This one is probably my
favorite, because I can use it in almost any situation when I start to feel the
unsettling anxiety slowly set in.
Breathing techniques have been found useful in so many cultures and in
so many different situations. Yoga is
another great tactic I can use to wind down! Try it!
4. When Researching a New Car
Purchase: Snack Like a Hiker
Buying a car is one of my most
dreaded tasks. Thankfully it’s not a task I endure everyday. However, next time I do, I will most
definitely be eating healthy snack and not making hasty decisions during the
process.
5. When You've Got 4 Hours to
Finish 41 Tasks: Take the Right Kind of Break
I find this tactic to be very
helpful. Living in a world where we are
constantly accessible and trying to “keep up” with our smartphones and other
wireless devices, our brains never have time to really decompress during breaks
from work. I have become accustomed to
checking my phone for emails, texts and missed phone calls / voicemails, every
time I have a small break. Instead I
should be taking a few minutes to not think about these tasks. I had to start slow and try to take two
5-minute breaks a day. You would be
amazed at what 10 minutes of relaxing can do for your brain each day!
My goal in sharing these tips
with you are to put them to use in your daily life. Even if you don’t directly relate to the
situation given in the examples, you can easily incorporate the strategy into
one of your daily tasks. One important
place I encourage you to use these tactics is in the dental chair. Dental anxiety is the #1 reason people put of
dental cleanings and restorative dental work.
Maybe one of these tactics can help you overcome your fears, and I
promise. I’ll help you through them as
well!
Dr. Jill Wade